Dating many guys
Although I appreciate them thinking about me in the middle of the day, if we have gone out on several dates, at what point is it appropriate to expect a 5 minute phone call a few times a week?
Is it too early in the dating process for phone contact? I think it should be used exclusively for only a handful of things: Letting someone know that you’re lost or running late. But anyone who’s ever used it knows how conversations can easily take a wrong turn.
I romanticized a story about an adult man kidnapping, molesting, and raping an adolescent girl.
None of that stuff happened to me, but I still wince when I remember how I idealized the thought of someone being single-mindedly obsessed with me the way the novel’s narrator is with Lolita.
Looking back at that relationship now, seven years later, there are so many things I wish someone had told me before I decided to become the Lolita to this guy’s Humbert².
That, by the way, is actually a comparison I made at the time, which is so gross to me now.
Don't get me wrong, I'm all about the single dads, but you guys do realize that everyone can see those pictures, right? Because I'm not sure you understand how the internet works. A couple of anonymous emails does not a relationship make.
But if that’s the case, then for a European Socialist, American democracy is a cult. So let’s define our terms: What is a cult, and how does Aish Ha Torah compare to that?
1) Cults always force you to cut off ties with your family.
Over the last several months, I have dated 3 men (not simultaneously) that I met on
They all seem to have one thing in common: after 2-4 dates, they like to touch base with me during the week by sending me text messages to my cell phone!